Jay in Phoenix wrote:
I'm wouldn't suggest she has that right, but from an ethical standpoint, considering they are exchanging cache for sex "dating" it is at least questionable, if not out right betrayal.
I am aware of no rule, written or unwritten, that says you cann't or shouldn't tell people when someone you are dating acts like a vile racist bully. He forfetied any right he may have had to 'keep' her quiet when he went off on her friends for no reason. She had their back and had no reason, at that point, to have his. She is almost blamless, ethically and morally, in this whole fiasco.
But I take no sides in this as I find them both acting in selfish fashion, and I feel no empathy for either of them.
I feel empathy for her. There is a big difference between selfish and self-preservation.
Yes, he has said this stuff before, but how much she was "pushed" is a little foggy.
There is a lot of this that is more than a little foggy. How much she was "pushed" included.
The only thing this looks like is opportunity, one she has been clearly waiting for.
Again, once he starts in on her about who her friends should be in public, then it's on like Donkey Kong and he gets what she wants to dool out... and he gets it when she wants to dool it out.
She is prostituting herself to some degree, because there can't possibly be love in this relationship, just money and sex...disgusting, fat old man sex. Ugh.
It's straight up hooking in my book, but I don't have a moral problem with that. As you might expect given my profession.
Pass the Rolaids and a bucket, this show is foul.
Best train wreck in a long time.