Now, m2, I realize that your natural response to this thread will be to lash out at me with anger and personal attacks...and I accept that. But rather than retaliate, I am going to let you get all of that resentment out of your system so we can move on to the next phase. What's the next phase, you ask? Please see below.
I've been in contact with several therapists around the Bay Area and finally settled on one I feel would be able to help you tremendously. His name is Dr. Paul Dubin and here is his bio:
Dr. Dubin and I had a wonderful chat that lasted about 15 minutes. He asked me to describe some of your symptoms so I laid them out the best I could:
My approach is best described as interactive, personable, nonjudgmental, and aimed at bringing about change that's both meaningful and real. I tend not to view people's issues or concerns as a form of pathology or neurosis, but rather as particular problems in living. I see each person as genuinely unique, and so avoid cookie-cutter approaches. My role is to help individuals and couples work through problems as effectively and efficiently as possible, in a way that builds confidence, self-respect, hope, and, ultimately, a fresh way of living life.
I draw from various sources for ideas and insights, including Humanism, Buddhism, social psychology, and cognitive science. I also specialize in clinical hypnosis, and make selective use of it in my counseling. I take my work seriously, and believe deeply in what I do.
Note: As with most psychologists, there is a fee associated with the first session. If, however, you do not wish to continue and feel, too, that our initial discussion was not very helpful, then I will respectfully waive that fee.
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- Compulsive liar
- Feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem which are manifested through creating a false identity online
- Instigates "battles" in which the patient attempts to portray a superior level of sophistication, wealth, and intellect over others
- Alcohol and drug abuse (not 100% certain but most likely)
I had more to say but Dr. Dubin practically cut me off. He told me that he specializes in dealing with patients with these symptoms and should have "no trouble" helping m2. He sounded quite confident...perhaps even a little cocky...but I trust his judgment.
As you can see from his web page his rate is not cheap but I assured him that you are a very successful windchime salesman. If, however, chime sales are down this quarter, then we as a collective board can look into starting a fund to raise the money necessary for you to complete the treatment.
I urge you to call Dr. Dubin right away to get your first appointment scheduled. Don't worry, the initial consultation is free!
For the rest of you reading this thread, PLEASE NOTE THIS IS A SMACK FREE ZONE. PLEASE LEAVE ALL RUDE COMMENTS AND CHILDISH INSULTS AT THE DOOR!
Thank you, and good luck to you m2. Please keep us updated through your journey of healing.