Ok, really all that you need to know is that a reality TV show starlet and her sister got their panties all up in a wad when the pilot gave them instructions concerning directions received from the flight attendants. He gave them a stern talking-to and then resumed his duties up front.
The sisters’ response? #flyingwhileblack

What these ladies don’t understand is that the FAA gives the pilot in command total and complete authority concerning every aspect of the aircraft and flight. He says, “Jump!” These ladies ask, “How high?
I feel somewhat sorry for airline captains in that everybody thinks they are just flying bus drivers when in actual fact, they are in the very same position as the captain of a nautical vessel. At least in a helicopter there is no question who is in charge: Me. The briefing we give prior to every take off explicitly states that the PIC is completely in charge. Suck it, self loading baggage.