T1B

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 6:29 pm**

First of all my apologies to Dio for my inability to be a helpful moderator the last couple of months on the Theology Forum.

I have been getting a number of PMs and emails recently concerning my sudden disappearance from the band so...

1) Yes I am still alive.
2) No I have not abandonned this group of degenerate ass wipes.
3) Yes I still know more than all of you... combined.
4) No neither Orc, TenTallBen, or their wives, kidnap me on their latest trips to the Gulf Coast.
5) No I did not commit suicide when the Chiefs started out the season 0-2
6) No I am not camped outside of any Pac 10 officials home waiting for their return.
7) Yes I am on medication... too much if ya ask me.

In all seriousness and candor I am just going through a lot right now in my life. I posted this at another soonerboard that has also been inquiring to my where abouts...

SunCoastSooner wrote:I'm still around. I don't often log in though I visit about once a week. Be thankful because that is more than I visit any other site other than my email.

Things are really rough right now out here for me. I found a growth on my back awhile back and in just a couple of weeks/months it had gone from the size of my pinky to the size of a golf ball protruding the right side of my spine. I finally had it checked out last May and my doctor sent me to another doctor and they did a biopsy.

My wife left me and went to stay at her parents that same week and two days later I found out the tumor was cancerous. The first step was an unsuccessful surgery and now I have been in treatment for 2 1/2 months. The first few weeks I was a wreck and was drinking pretty heavily. Some of my friends and one of my doctors (he is the same bowling league as a couple of my friends) grabbed a hold of me and got me back to a semi normal state. I am also seeing a psych once a week . I have been trying to work things out with my better half but I fear there is about to be a hellacious custody fight if we get a divorce. My attorney has assured me that the cards are stacked in my favor because of my job history, education, ability to provide, and the fact that I have been the primary care giver to our daughter for the majority of her life (even by SCT's own admission). The wild card is my health and even my mental health as I am getting really worn down from the treatments and some days it is a struggle to just get out of bed.

I'm also am not allowed to travel to any of the games by doctors orders. I spend Eaxh Saturday at a local bar where there is an OU club that has the games on.

Some days are better than others but I wouldn't term any day recently as a "good" one. I'm pretty satisfied if I can go a couple of hours without welling up with tears any more. I'm pretty scared about what the furture holds; getting to see my daughter grow up, my health, and my marriage or lack there of currently. I've lost almost 50 pounds since May and for those of you who have met me you know I didn't exactly have 50 pounds to spare on my frame.

Just keep me in your thoughts and prayers and I'll check in when the moment suites me.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 6:32 pm**

SCS, I wish you the best in real life, and I hope that you end up beating this thing. I am sorry to hear about all of what you've posted. Here's hoping that things turn around for you.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 6:40 pm**

SunCoastSooner wrote:3) Yes I still know more than all of you... combined.

I'm guessing there's many posters here who could spell "abandoned" correctly.

One of my closest friends is going through some serious health issues, as a result of deployment in Iraq. In the midst of all of it, when he was nearly unable to take care of himself, his wife decided he was too much of a burden to stand by, so she grabbed the daughter and left.

Like yourself, he has my deepest sympathies on his health...and none whatsoever on his wife leaving...he actually gets congratulations on it...on being relieved of having such a reprehensible piece of shit gone from his life.

What sort of person would leave their spouse, the spouse they made lifetime vows to, at their greatest time of need?

That's right up there on the "Hey world! I'm a piece of shit!" scale.

Best wishes on your improved health, and congratulations for fate removing that piece of shit from your life.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 6:50 pm**

Dinsdale wrote:
SunCoastSooner wrote:3) Yes I still know more than all of you... combined.
I'm guessing there's many posters here who could spell "abandoned" correctly.

Sorry my hands are a bit shaky Dins (you should hear some of the call backs I get about work I have sent out recently with extra letters and what not that I don't catch). I bow to your superiority at the spelling bee. ;)

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 6:56 pm**

SunCoastSooner wrote: Sorry my hands are a bit shaky Dins

And if you keep your head held high, and remain confident in the person you are, this too shall pass, as your mind overcomes your body.

On this you have my best wishes.

However...

I bow to your superiority at the spelling bee.

No amount of healing and positive attitude will ever change this.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:10 pm**

Jebus, mon.

Sorry to hear about your troubles. Best of luck.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:12 pm**

Really sorry to hear about the shit you're going through.
This is the kind of thing that a lot of us fear the most, not being able to see our kids grow up,
and hearing about it certainly brings us back to reality.
I sincerely hope everything goes well for you. T's and P's on the way.

That being said, I wouldn't mind losing 50 lb or so. That would put my BMI just about at the low end of normal.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:18 pm**

Seems Job has decided to post among us. Sorry to hear about what's happening, but for once SCS, try thinking of US for a change, huh?

Look, I for one am fuggin' SICK of losing people from our little commune. So we don't have TIME for your foolishness.

Rub some dirt on it and get back in the game, sheesh.

velocet

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:21 pm**

Stay strong, my friend.

I look forward to many barside tales involving Deacon Jones.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:34 pm**

Good luck SCS... I'll keep ya in my thoguhts... Hope all works out for the best.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 7:37 pm**

IRIE tried to off himself too, SCS (allegedly).

All I can do is offer the same advice everybody gave him: Try harder next time.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 9:29 pm**

Good luck, SCS.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 10:04 pm**

I don't know you all that well SCS, but you are at the top of my prayer list tonight buddy. Sorry to hear.

Posted: **Mon Oct 02, 2006 11:48 pm**

SCS,

I'm so sorry to hear that.

If you make it to the theology forum, you will see that I was asked to be another moderator and accepted. But any input you want to provide/are up to providing is always greatly appreciated.

Hope things start to look up for you soon.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 12:20 am**

Seems to me that this might be a good time to browse a forum about faith and God. :wink:

Good luck to you. As long as there is light, the darkness is lost.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 12:36 am**

BSmack wrote:As long as there is light, the darkness is lost.

in other words,[= keep drinkin buddy

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 12:38 am**

Holy crap, SCS! You definitely have my g/f's & my T's & P's. Beat the bastard!

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 12:42 am**

Dinsdale wrote:
SunCoastSooner wrote:3) Yes I still know more than all of you... combined.
I'm guessing there's many posters here who could spell "abandoned" correctly.

One of my closest friends is going through some serious health issues, as a result of deployment in Iraq. In the midst of all of it, when he was nearly unable to take care of himself, his wife decided he was too much of a burden to stand by, so she grabbed the daughter and left.

Like yourself, he has my deepest sympathies on his health...and none whatsoever on his wife leaving...he actually gets congratulations on it...on being relieved of having such a reprehensible piece of shit gone from his life.

What sort of person would leave their spouse, the spouse they made lifetime vows to, at their greatest time of need?

That's right up there on the "Hey world! I'm a piece of shit!" scale.

Best wishes on your improved health, and congratulations for fate removing that piece of shit from your life.

werd perfekt

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 1:03 am**

Fucking hell, SCS, looks like you're dealing with two malign tumours. You'll be well shot of both of the cunts, and we look forward to seeing you back when you get better.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 1:16 am**

Be well, SCS.

The Theology Forum has exploded into chaos without you around.
Come back soon.

Peace ................

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 1:45 am**

Just incase this the best troll job since ltl2 or 7 or whatever he was, rack you.

If not, I got dibs on you in the '07 pool!!!!

Beat this shit. man. Then go find you a 23 y.o. plastic tittied hottie and parade her around in front of the soon to be ex.

good luck, sooner.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 2:26 am**

....Just what you friggin needed this year......

Next year you'll look back and smile.....or wince......

It'll be okay. Hang in there.

T&P

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 3:36 am**

Thoughts & Prayers SCS.

Ohhh...and rack (pardon the pun) the plastic tittied hottie thought....either that, or just go nail one of her best friends....that would smack her proper like.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 5:05 am**

SCS, you have my thoughts and prayers. I just lost my Dad in August. Stay strong, bro.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 5:37 am**

I still plan on buying you a beer or three at Tapwerks in downtown OKC before catching a Spurs-Hornets game. Bribe the docs and stuff.

Stay strong, bro.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 1:25 pm**

SunCoastSooner wrote:4) No neither Orc, TenTallBen, or their wives, kidnap me on their latest trips to the Gulf Coast.

Sorry dude. I only do B & E's and DUI's. :wink:

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 1:56 pm**

First the Oregon game, and now this. Get well soon.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 2:31 pm**

Stay strong SCS.. you will beat this.

Thoughts are with you...

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 2:47 pm**

SunCoastSooner wrote:
Yes I still know more than all of you... combined.

in just a couple of weeks/months it had gone from the size of my pinky to the size of a golf ball protruding the right side of my spine..... I finally had it checked out last May

So you have a growth the size of your pinky, and you wait until it grows to the size of a golf ball to go to the doctor.

Nice work, Einstein. I'm not rooting for you. I'll take cancer and the under. It's a LOCK.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 4:21 pm**

Did velo just drop a "rub some dirt on it" reset in a T&P thread?

"Epic" just took on a whole new meaning.

Maybe SCS should have a team of doctors from a PAC10 medical department review his biopsy.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 5:53 pm**

1smoothG wrote:I'll take cancer and the under.

Damn dude...thats cold....yet funny.....

Sorry to hear about it SCS. Here's hoping you get to see that p.o.s. of a significant other get put in the ground before you clock out.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 6:31 pm**

BSmack wrote:Seems to me that this might be a good time to browse a forum about faith and God. :wink:

Good luck to you. As long as there is light, the darkness is lost.

I don't think you really want my opinion on God right now Bsmack ;)

So you have a growth the size of your pinky, and you wait until it grows to the size of a golf ball to go to the doctor.

Do you know what the wait is to get into see a doctor around here? It grew in a matter of weeks.

Posted: **Tue Oct 03, 2006 7:11 pm**

Hope ya kick the shit out your system soon, SCS.

PS- My apologies in advance for the UT win this Saturday. Maybe you should just watch another game or something.

Posted: **Wed Oct 04, 2006 1:17 pm**

Mr T wrote:
1smoothG wrote:Nice work, Einstein. I'm not rooting for you. I'll take cancer and the under.
Damn dude...thats cold....yet funny.....

No, it's not.

If that piece of shits nic is not banned then somebody around here has no balls.

Fuckhead.

Posted: **Wed Oct 04, 2006 1:52 pm**

Anyone who gets their panties wadded up over a 1smoothG post is a humorless pussy.

Posted: **Wed Oct 04, 2006 1:57 pm**

Whatever tickles your funny bone, Goobs.

Posted: **Wed Oct 04, 2006 2:15 pm**

It’s no more outrageous than any of his other posts. I’ve never seen you call for his banning when he mocked Purvis and Quadrevion, Indy’s friend whose daughter died, JayDuck’s fiancé’s father’s death, etc. He just runs cold, brutal smack. It’s usually hilarious. And it wouldn’t surprise me at all to learn that whoever runs that troll posted in this thread with his regular nic and wished SCS the best.

Lighten up, Frances, it’s just a message board.

Posted: **Wed Oct 04, 2006 10:03 pm**

sorry to hear the newxs, whoever you are. Hope you can accept my T & P.

BTW
C-

Posted: **Wed Oct 04, 2006 10:15 pm**

Wish you nothing but the best, SCS. Get better soon so that you can bone all of her friends.

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