NY Times article about the recruiting of Jamarkus Mcfarland
Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 1:50 pm
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/12/26/sport ... ref=sports
interest free loans, drug and stripper parties for underage recruits, big payoffs for Mom from Texas unofficial sources. gotta love the UT self-myth that "everyone else cheats to keep up with Texas". Mack has flat screens on the OUTSIDE of his house, what a playa.
anyhoo, typical of the NY Times when it deigns fit to report on life in the provinces.....the whole article is dumbed up to make life west of the Mississippi "make sense" for the Upper East Side.
LUFKIN, Tex. — This college football season ended with Oklahoma and Texas once again demonstrating the intensity of their rivalry. The teams and their fans lobbied hard for the precious Bowl Championship Series points that would ultimately clear a path for the Sooners to compete for the national title against Florida.
The process often divided Jamarkus McFarland and his mother, Kashemeyia Adams, who received offers to influence her son.
The New York Times
But there is one place where the tension between these programs has long run even deeper: on the recruiting trail. And while the debate unfolded over the teams, another battle quietly raged in this quaint East Texas town.
The fight was over Jamarkus McFarland, a 6-foot-3, 290-pound defensive tackle from Lufkin High School who is considered the state’s best defensive prospect this year and one of the nation’s most promising players. He is also a top student and the president of his class.
The effort to recruit him took a turn at precisely 12:01 a.m. on Christmas, when McFarland, 18, decided to commit to Oklahoma. On Thursday, he called the Sooners’ defensive line coach, Jackie Shipp.
“I want you to coach me for the next four years,” McFarland told him.
“What did you say?” Shipp said.
“I want you to coach me for the next four years,” McFarland repeated. “Isn’t that what you wanted for Christmas?”
Shipp told McFarland to hold on, then he began screaming. McFarland’s decision ended a grueling recruiting process, although he cannot sign a letter of intent with the Sooners until Feb. 4. Coaches from Oklahoma and Texas are not allowed to comment on McFarland until then.
Since July, he and his family have provided a reporter for The New York Times with exclusive access to his recruitment, a journey that often divided McFarland and his mother. They endured frequent telephone calls and e-mail messages from reporters and coaches, tears of frustration, restless nights and Internet rumors suggesting impropriety.
McFarland’s mother, Kashemeyia Adams, said she received numerous offers, including one for an interest-free loan for a former classmate, if her son were to choose Texas. She said she did not believe the offers were affiliated with the Texas football staff.
Along the way, McFarland was wined and dined. He visited the house of the president of Oklahoma, where he was promised a spot in the prestigious President’s Leadership Class. He rode in a Hummer stretch limousine in Los Angeles. He attended parties, including one in Dallas, where he said there was free alcohol, drugs and young women taking off their clothes.
In the end, his decision came down to trusting his mother and his grandmother, Bobbie Jean Adams.
“I’ve followed my mother and grandmother’s advice for all my life,” McFarland said. “I know they don’t want bad for me.”
Mother Knows Best
At the start, Kashemeyia Adams was unimpressed with Oklahoma. As she and her son wrapped up a visit to its campus in April, she departed with terse words for Shipp.
“I am never setting foot in Norman, Oklahoma, again,” she recalled telling him. “I didn’t like it. I’m not going to deal with it.”
Shipp, a former N.F.L. player and one of the country’s top recruiters, appeared unfazed. He smiled, leaned into her tan sport utility vehicle and promised to e-mail her daily, which is allowed under N.C.A.A. rules.
“Give us an opportunity to prove why O.U. is best for your son,” she said Shipp told her. “Let us prove it. Make colleges prove it.”
The proving process for McFarland broke down into three steps, typical of the courtship of a top high school athlete. It started with unofficial visits, like the April trip to Oklahoma, for which recruits and their families pay their own way. Those are followed by official campus visits paid for by universities. Finally, coaches make in-home visits.
Shipp appeared to understand soon after that trip that McFarland’s recruitment would have as much to do with wooing his mother as it would with persuading him to choose Oklahoma.
Adams initially favored Texas because of its prestige and because of what she perceived as its stronger academic offerings. But Shipp delivered on his promise. He sent her e-mail messages every day, building the foundation for what would become a friendship.
When Adams did not reply, Shipp sent follow-up messages. In one, he wrote, “Ms. Adams, Haven’t heard from you in a few days.” She liked his persistence, his no-nonsense attitude and the idea that he could be a black male role model for her son.
Adams, meanwhile, received only occasional letters and e-mail messages from Texas coaches.
“Texas went to sleep in the summertime in recruiting J-Mac,” she said. “When they went to sleep, Oklahoma woke up.”
But as Oklahoma began rising in her mind, her son was not sold. Beyond his athleticism and academic achievement, McFarland also works a part-time job at Kmart. He plans to study kinesiology and hopes to become a physical therapist or a strength coach.
He has an older brother in prison for conspiracy to commit murder and for tampering with evidence in the shooting death of a man in September 2006. Three uncles also spent time in prison. His mother is a follower of the Pentecostal faith who does not attend his football games.
Growing up, McFarland said, he always listened to his mother and his grandmother, an Oklahoma fan. But he initially had his heart set on Texas.
“I’ve been brought up listening to them and obeying by their rules,” McFarland said. “To go against them is hard to do.”
Unforgettable Trips
McFarland made four official visits during his recruitment — to Oklahoma, Texas, Louisiana State and Southern California.
He said he saw everything from flat-screen televisions in Texas Coach Mack Brown’s bathrooms to L.S.U.’s recruiting hostesses sitting on the laps of prospects.
But the best summation of his experience might have come from a paper he wrote for his English class comparing Oklahoma and Texas. The paper, “Red River Rivals Recruit,” includes a description of a wild party hosted by Longhorns fans at an upscale hotel in Dallas after the Oklahoma-Texas game on Oct. 11.
“I will never forget the excitement amongst all participants,” McFarland wrote. “Alcohol was all you can drink, money was not an option. Girls were acting wild by taking off their tops, and pulling down their pants. Girls were also romancing each other. Some guys loved every minute of the freakiness some girls demonstrated. I have never attended a party of this magnitude.”
He continued: “The attitude of the people at the party was that everyone should drink or not come to the party. Drugs were prevalent with no price attached.”
He compared that with a house party hosted by a sorority at Oklahoma.
“Drinks were plentiful, but not to the extent they were” at the Dallas party, he wrote. “Some people were tipsy, but in control of themselves.”
He described the atmosphere as pleasant and added: “Some people who attend the University of Oklahoma seem to represent different values than some people who attend the University of Texas.”
In his paper, McFarland also sized up the strength and conditioning programs. At Texas, he noted, groups of players worked out with one coach in the weight room.
“In my opinion, this kind of coaching leaves many players without supervision and the proper training needed to excel in this sport,” he wrote.
At Oklahoma, McFarland wrote, players had serious one-on-one training with a coach. He described the workouts as inspiring and intimidating.
Oklahoma also made an impression by stressing academics. McFarland and his mother joined Shipp and Oklahoma’s head coach, Bob Stoops, at the home of the university’s president, David Boren, a former governor and senator from the state. Boren offered McFarland a spot in the President’s Leadership Class, a selective scholarship group for freshmen.
“Just imagine the recommendation that President Boren would give you,” Adams said.
Of the four universities, L.S.U. made the worst impression. After the Tigers lost to Georgia, 52-38, on Oct. 25, McFarland, his mother and his grandmother attended a catered meal at the home of Tigers Coach Les Miles.
“He was very dry,” Adams said of Miles.
Adams was further turned off by L.S.U., she said, when she saw hostesses sitting on the laps of recruits.
McFarland had his official visit to Texas scheduled for two weeks later, the weekend of Nov. 8. Just days before, a false Internet report surfaced that he and his mother might not make the trip. The Longhorns began calling both of them so much that they almost did cancel the visit.
“Mama, I don’t even feeling like going,” McFarland told his mother. “I don’t want to do it.”
Before the visit, Adams called Texas and asked to speak with Brown. The associate head coach, Mac McWhorter, told her that she could talk only to him.
That bothered her because she had wanted to talk to Brown and commend him for the Longhorns’ dismissal of a player who had posted a racial slur on his Facebook page about President-elect Barack Obama.
During the trip, Adams said, she asked Brown about the Obama slur, and was told that the player had to be dismissed because the F.B.I. had become involved.
After Texas beat Baylor that weekend, McFarland and his mother ate dinner at Brown’s home. Flat-screen televisions were in every room, and there were two outside.
“Whose house do you like better, Bob Stoops’s, Les Miles’s or mine?” Adams recalled Brown saying.
That opulence did not touch what McFarland saw on a visit to U.S.C. the weekend after Thanksgiving. After beating Notre Dame, U.S.C. players rented a stretch Hummer and took him to a party. It worried Adams that her son might become enthralled with such luxury.
Upon returning to Lufkin, McFarland wanted to commit to the Trojans. But by week’s end, he had eliminated them.
“After going to U.S.C., he was talking about he has to grow up and can’t just depend on his Mama,” Adams said.
Talking Things Through
In mid-November, McFarland and his mother had their first extensive sit-down conversation about his future. The two-hour discussion opened with McFarland asking her to pretend that Shipp was not coaching at Oklahoma.
“It’s the best overall opportunity,” Adams said.
McFarland acknowledged that Shipp was the best coach for him, but he wondered whether Shipp would be at Oklahoma for his entire career. He also felt that his best chance of making the N.F.L. would come by playing for the Sooners.
Yet he worried what an Oklahoma degree would mean for landing a job in Texas. He also thought that the Longhorns offered him the best education and that Austin had the most entertainment.
“There ain’t nothing to do at Oklahoma except football,” McFarland said.
Adams presented her son with a list of pros and cons for Louisiana State, Oklahoma and Texas. One of her dislikes about Louisiana State was that a maid would clean her son’s dorm room weekly. She also emphasized that the recent recruiting efforts by Texas had happened through Lufkin High Coach John Outlaw. She believed Outlaw wanted her son to attend Texas.
“John Outlaw is not your parent,” Adams said. “When you leave Lufkin High School, what is he going to do for you? If there’s a problem with you, I will have to take care of it.”
By the end of the talk, McFarland decided to eliminate Louisiana State, leaving only Oklahoma and Texas on the table.
“I love you,” Adams said. “I want to see the best for you. It’s important to me to be able to trust somebody. It’s important to me to be able to have somebody there for you, because it’s just what I want.”
Down to the Rivals
In the first week of December, as Oklahoma prepared to play Missouri for the Big 12 championship, Texas sent several assistant coaches to visit McFarland at school. They did not visit with Adams.
Around the same time, McFarland nearly committed to Texas after a conversation with his mother, who told him to call and inform coaches at each university.
Minutes later, McWhorter called Adams. Adams asked him if her son had committed to his Longhorns. He had not. Instead, her son had called Texas to ask whom he would talk to if he ever had a problem involving race. Within minutes, the Longhorns’ defensive ends coach, Oscar Giles, who is black, called Adams for the first time.
By this point, Adams had already called Shipp to inform him that McFarland would not play for Oklahoma. During that conversation, however, Shipp did not panic.
“Well, it’s not over,” she said Shipp told her. “If I knew and he looked me in my eyes and told me that, there’s nothing I can do but back off.”
Later that night, McFarland and Shipp talked on the telephone for an hour.
With Oklahoma winning the Big 12 championship and Shipp scheduled to visit the next week, Texas furiously tried to arrange an in-home visit with McFarland and his mother.
Will Muschamp, the team’s defensive coordinator and designated head coach-in-waiting, called until Adams finally talked to him at her son’s request. He tried to patch things up about the earlier phone call in which she was told she could not talk to Brown. He also explained that Texas had probably sent more letters and e-mail messages to her than to any other recruit’s parent.
“He was acting like he was doing me a favor,” Adams said. “You’re recruiting my son. I feel sorry for them if they’re saying they haven’t had that much interaction with any other recruit’s family. I feel sorry for those families. I really do.”
Texas made another visit to McFarland’s school, but again, they did not see Adams.
After the visit, Adams received an e-mail message from Brown. “It is obvious that the recruiting has put a strain on your relationship,” the message said. “JaMac wants Texas, and Mom wants OU. We want you to still come to Texas, but we are going to slow our process down because you two need some time to get on the same page. We do not want players at Texas if everyone isn’t on the same page.”
In the same message, Brown wrote that Texas would not visit again unless requested.
McFarland’s mother and grandmother were offended.
“That’s tacky to me,” Adams said. “You’re basically telling my kid to just go against his parents.”
On Dec. 17, Stoops and Shipp visited McFarland on behalf of Oklahoma. They flew on a private plane that Sooners and Longhorns fans anxiously tracked on the Internet.
While at McFarland’s house, Stoops offered to set the table for dinner and helped carry in ribs and potato salad. After a second serving of ribs and some peach cobbler, he sat on the couch with McFarland and his grandmother and watched the movie “Beauty Shop,” starring Queen Latifah and Alicia Silverstone.
Stoops occasionally chuckled while watching the film before talking to McFarland about Oklahoma. He dismissed talk that McFarland would not be able to get a job in Texas with an Oklahoma degree.
When Stoops’s departing flight from Lufkin was delayed by more than two hours, there was rampant Internet speculation that McFarland had committed and that Stoops had stayed late to celebrate.
But that was not the case. He had taken off without a commitment.
Two days later, another Internet report surfaced, this time suggesting that McFarland and his mother had been offered extra inducements by universities and had then reported the transgressions to Texas. The report also said Texas responded by backing away from its recruitment of McFarland to document its own handling of the process.
The posting angered Adams, who said she suspected that Texas coaches were behind it. She flatly denied the report.
“This isn’t about J-Mac anymore,” Adams said. “It’s about O.U. versus Texas. It shouldn’t be that way.”
Allegations from the report upset her because she said she had received numerous offers of gifts in exchange for her son to attend Texas. She said she did not believe that Brown or anyone officially with Texas was involved or had any knowledge of the enticements.
“It’s been made known that enough income would flow through where I would be good for a while,” Adams said.
Earlier this month, a former classmate called Adams and asked if she would coax her son into attending Texas. If so, a banker had promised the former classmate any type of loan.
At one point, McFarland cried while discussing with his mother whether to attend Oklahoma or Texas.
“I hate this now,” his mother recalled him saying. “I really do, simply because of the pressure.”
After the visit by Stoops, Adams said she received a message from a Longhorns assistant, who wrote, “I hope that Texas is still in your mind.”
A week later, McFarland’s mind was made up.
“I’m pretty glad it’s over,” he said by Thursday. “This is a good thing to have out of the way. Everyone’s satisfied.”
Especially Oklahoma, which received a Texas-size Christmas gift.
Pete Thamel contributed reporting.
interest free loans, drug and stripper parties for underage recruits, big payoffs for Mom from Texas unofficial sources. gotta love the UT self-myth that "everyone else cheats to keep up with Texas". Mack has flat screens on the OUTSIDE of his house, what a playa.
anyhoo, typical of the NY Times when it deigns fit to report on life in the provinces.....the whole article is dumbed up to make life west of the Mississippi "make sense" for the Upper East Side.
LUFKIN, Tex. — This college football season ended with Oklahoma and Texas once again demonstrating the intensity of their rivalry. The teams and their fans lobbied hard for the precious Bowl Championship Series points that would ultimately clear a path for the Sooners to compete for the national title against Florida.
The process often divided Jamarkus McFarland and his mother, Kashemeyia Adams, who received offers to influence her son.
The New York Times
But there is one place where the tension between these programs has long run even deeper: on the recruiting trail. And while the debate unfolded over the teams, another battle quietly raged in this quaint East Texas town.
The fight was over Jamarkus McFarland, a 6-foot-3, 290-pound defensive tackle from Lufkin High School who is considered the state’s best defensive prospect this year and one of the nation’s most promising players. He is also a top student and the president of his class.
The effort to recruit him took a turn at precisely 12:01 a.m. on Christmas, when McFarland, 18, decided to commit to Oklahoma. On Thursday, he called the Sooners’ defensive line coach, Jackie Shipp.
“I want you to coach me for the next four years,” McFarland told him.
“What did you say?” Shipp said.
“I want you to coach me for the next four years,” McFarland repeated. “Isn’t that what you wanted for Christmas?”
Shipp told McFarland to hold on, then he began screaming. McFarland’s decision ended a grueling recruiting process, although he cannot sign a letter of intent with the Sooners until Feb. 4. Coaches from Oklahoma and Texas are not allowed to comment on McFarland until then.
Since July, he and his family have provided a reporter for The New York Times with exclusive access to his recruitment, a journey that often divided McFarland and his mother. They endured frequent telephone calls and e-mail messages from reporters and coaches, tears of frustration, restless nights and Internet rumors suggesting impropriety.
McFarland’s mother, Kashemeyia Adams, said she received numerous offers, including one for an interest-free loan for a former classmate, if her son were to choose Texas. She said she did not believe the offers were affiliated with the Texas football staff.
Along the way, McFarland was wined and dined. He visited the house of the president of Oklahoma, where he was promised a spot in the prestigious President’s Leadership Class. He rode in a Hummer stretch limousine in Los Angeles. He attended parties, including one in Dallas, where he said there was free alcohol, drugs and young women taking off their clothes.
In the end, his decision came down to trusting his mother and his grandmother, Bobbie Jean Adams.
“I’ve followed my mother and grandmother’s advice for all my life,” McFarland said. “I know they don’t want bad for me.”
Mother Knows Best
At the start, Kashemeyia Adams was unimpressed with Oklahoma. As she and her son wrapped up a visit to its campus in April, she departed with terse words for Shipp.
“I am never setting foot in Norman, Oklahoma, again,” she recalled telling him. “I didn’t like it. I’m not going to deal with it.”
Shipp, a former N.F.L. player and one of the country’s top recruiters, appeared unfazed. He smiled, leaned into her tan sport utility vehicle and promised to e-mail her daily, which is allowed under N.C.A.A. rules.
“Give us an opportunity to prove why O.U. is best for your son,” she said Shipp told her. “Let us prove it. Make colleges prove it.”
The proving process for McFarland broke down into three steps, typical of the courtship of a top high school athlete. It started with unofficial visits, like the April trip to Oklahoma, for which recruits and their families pay their own way. Those are followed by official campus visits paid for by universities. Finally, coaches make in-home visits.
Shipp appeared to understand soon after that trip that McFarland’s recruitment would have as much to do with wooing his mother as it would with persuading him to choose Oklahoma.
Adams initially favored Texas because of its prestige and because of what she perceived as its stronger academic offerings. But Shipp delivered on his promise. He sent her e-mail messages every day, building the foundation for what would become a friendship.
When Adams did not reply, Shipp sent follow-up messages. In one, he wrote, “Ms. Adams, Haven’t heard from you in a few days.” She liked his persistence, his no-nonsense attitude and the idea that he could be a black male role model for her son.
Adams, meanwhile, received only occasional letters and e-mail messages from Texas coaches.
“Texas went to sleep in the summertime in recruiting J-Mac,” she said. “When they went to sleep, Oklahoma woke up.”
But as Oklahoma began rising in her mind, her son was not sold. Beyond his athleticism and academic achievement, McFarland also works a part-time job at Kmart. He plans to study kinesiology and hopes to become a physical therapist or a strength coach.
He has an older brother in prison for conspiracy to commit murder and for tampering with evidence in the shooting death of a man in September 2006. Three uncles also spent time in prison. His mother is a follower of the Pentecostal faith who does not attend his football games.
Growing up, McFarland said, he always listened to his mother and his grandmother, an Oklahoma fan. But he initially had his heart set on Texas.
“I’ve been brought up listening to them and obeying by their rules,” McFarland said. “To go against them is hard to do.”
Unforgettable Trips
McFarland made four official visits during his recruitment — to Oklahoma, Texas, Louisiana State and Southern California.
He said he saw everything from flat-screen televisions in Texas Coach Mack Brown’s bathrooms to L.S.U.’s recruiting hostesses sitting on the laps of prospects.
But the best summation of his experience might have come from a paper he wrote for his English class comparing Oklahoma and Texas. The paper, “Red River Rivals Recruit,” includes a description of a wild party hosted by Longhorns fans at an upscale hotel in Dallas after the Oklahoma-Texas game on Oct. 11.
“I will never forget the excitement amongst all participants,” McFarland wrote. “Alcohol was all you can drink, money was not an option. Girls were acting wild by taking off their tops, and pulling down their pants. Girls were also romancing each other. Some guys loved every minute of the freakiness some girls demonstrated. I have never attended a party of this magnitude.”
He continued: “The attitude of the people at the party was that everyone should drink or not come to the party. Drugs were prevalent with no price attached.”
He compared that with a house party hosted by a sorority at Oklahoma.
“Drinks were plentiful, but not to the extent they were” at the Dallas party, he wrote. “Some people were tipsy, but in control of themselves.”
He described the atmosphere as pleasant and added: “Some people who attend the University of Oklahoma seem to represent different values than some people who attend the University of Texas.”
In his paper, McFarland also sized up the strength and conditioning programs. At Texas, he noted, groups of players worked out with one coach in the weight room.
“In my opinion, this kind of coaching leaves many players without supervision and the proper training needed to excel in this sport,” he wrote.
At Oklahoma, McFarland wrote, players had serious one-on-one training with a coach. He described the workouts as inspiring and intimidating.
Oklahoma also made an impression by stressing academics. McFarland and his mother joined Shipp and Oklahoma’s head coach, Bob Stoops, at the home of the university’s president, David Boren, a former governor and senator from the state. Boren offered McFarland a spot in the President’s Leadership Class, a selective scholarship group for freshmen.
“Just imagine the recommendation that President Boren would give you,” Adams said.
Of the four universities, L.S.U. made the worst impression. After the Tigers lost to Georgia, 52-38, on Oct. 25, McFarland, his mother and his grandmother attended a catered meal at the home of Tigers Coach Les Miles.
“He was very dry,” Adams said of Miles.
Adams was further turned off by L.S.U., she said, when she saw hostesses sitting on the laps of recruits.
McFarland had his official visit to Texas scheduled for two weeks later, the weekend of Nov. 8. Just days before, a false Internet report surfaced that he and his mother might not make the trip. The Longhorns began calling both of them so much that they almost did cancel the visit.
“Mama, I don’t even feeling like going,” McFarland told his mother. “I don’t want to do it.”
Before the visit, Adams called Texas and asked to speak with Brown. The associate head coach, Mac McWhorter, told her that she could talk only to him.
That bothered her because she had wanted to talk to Brown and commend him for the Longhorns’ dismissal of a player who had posted a racial slur on his Facebook page about President-elect Barack Obama.
During the trip, Adams said, she asked Brown about the Obama slur, and was told that the player had to be dismissed because the F.B.I. had become involved.
After Texas beat Baylor that weekend, McFarland and his mother ate dinner at Brown’s home. Flat-screen televisions were in every room, and there were two outside.
“Whose house do you like better, Bob Stoops’s, Les Miles’s or mine?” Adams recalled Brown saying.
That opulence did not touch what McFarland saw on a visit to U.S.C. the weekend after Thanksgiving. After beating Notre Dame, U.S.C. players rented a stretch Hummer and took him to a party. It worried Adams that her son might become enthralled with such luxury.
Upon returning to Lufkin, McFarland wanted to commit to the Trojans. But by week’s end, he had eliminated them.
“After going to U.S.C., he was talking about he has to grow up and can’t just depend on his Mama,” Adams said.
Talking Things Through
In mid-November, McFarland and his mother had their first extensive sit-down conversation about his future. The two-hour discussion opened with McFarland asking her to pretend that Shipp was not coaching at Oklahoma.
“It’s the best overall opportunity,” Adams said.
McFarland acknowledged that Shipp was the best coach for him, but he wondered whether Shipp would be at Oklahoma for his entire career. He also felt that his best chance of making the N.F.L. would come by playing for the Sooners.
Yet he worried what an Oklahoma degree would mean for landing a job in Texas. He also thought that the Longhorns offered him the best education and that Austin had the most entertainment.
“There ain’t nothing to do at Oklahoma except football,” McFarland said.
Adams presented her son with a list of pros and cons for Louisiana State, Oklahoma and Texas. One of her dislikes about Louisiana State was that a maid would clean her son’s dorm room weekly. She also emphasized that the recent recruiting efforts by Texas had happened through Lufkin High Coach John Outlaw. She believed Outlaw wanted her son to attend Texas.
“John Outlaw is not your parent,” Adams said. “When you leave Lufkin High School, what is he going to do for you? If there’s a problem with you, I will have to take care of it.”
By the end of the talk, McFarland decided to eliminate Louisiana State, leaving only Oklahoma and Texas on the table.
“I love you,” Adams said. “I want to see the best for you. It’s important to me to be able to trust somebody. It’s important to me to be able to have somebody there for you, because it’s just what I want.”
Down to the Rivals
In the first week of December, as Oklahoma prepared to play Missouri for the Big 12 championship, Texas sent several assistant coaches to visit McFarland at school. They did not visit with Adams.
Around the same time, McFarland nearly committed to Texas after a conversation with his mother, who told him to call and inform coaches at each university.
Minutes later, McWhorter called Adams. Adams asked him if her son had committed to his Longhorns. He had not. Instead, her son had called Texas to ask whom he would talk to if he ever had a problem involving race. Within minutes, the Longhorns’ defensive ends coach, Oscar Giles, who is black, called Adams for the first time.
By this point, Adams had already called Shipp to inform him that McFarland would not play for Oklahoma. During that conversation, however, Shipp did not panic.
“Well, it’s not over,” she said Shipp told her. “If I knew and he looked me in my eyes and told me that, there’s nothing I can do but back off.”
Later that night, McFarland and Shipp talked on the telephone for an hour.
With Oklahoma winning the Big 12 championship and Shipp scheduled to visit the next week, Texas furiously tried to arrange an in-home visit with McFarland and his mother.
Will Muschamp, the team’s defensive coordinator and designated head coach-in-waiting, called until Adams finally talked to him at her son’s request. He tried to patch things up about the earlier phone call in which she was told she could not talk to Brown. He also explained that Texas had probably sent more letters and e-mail messages to her than to any other recruit’s parent.
“He was acting like he was doing me a favor,” Adams said. “You’re recruiting my son. I feel sorry for them if they’re saying they haven’t had that much interaction with any other recruit’s family. I feel sorry for those families. I really do.”
Texas made another visit to McFarland’s school, but again, they did not see Adams.
After the visit, Adams received an e-mail message from Brown. “It is obvious that the recruiting has put a strain on your relationship,” the message said. “JaMac wants Texas, and Mom wants OU. We want you to still come to Texas, but we are going to slow our process down because you two need some time to get on the same page. We do not want players at Texas if everyone isn’t on the same page.”
In the same message, Brown wrote that Texas would not visit again unless requested.
McFarland’s mother and grandmother were offended.
“That’s tacky to me,” Adams said. “You’re basically telling my kid to just go against his parents.”
On Dec. 17, Stoops and Shipp visited McFarland on behalf of Oklahoma. They flew on a private plane that Sooners and Longhorns fans anxiously tracked on the Internet.
While at McFarland’s house, Stoops offered to set the table for dinner and helped carry in ribs and potato salad. After a second serving of ribs and some peach cobbler, he sat on the couch with McFarland and his grandmother and watched the movie “Beauty Shop,” starring Queen Latifah and Alicia Silverstone.
Stoops occasionally chuckled while watching the film before talking to McFarland about Oklahoma. He dismissed talk that McFarland would not be able to get a job in Texas with an Oklahoma degree.
When Stoops’s departing flight from Lufkin was delayed by more than two hours, there was rampant Internet speculation that McFarland had committed and that Stoops had stayed late to celebrate.
But that was not the case. He had taken off without a commitment.
Two days later, another Internet report surfaced, this time suggesting that McFarland and his mother had been offered extra inducements by universities and had then reported the transgressions to Texas. The report also said Texas responded by backing away from its recruitment of McFarland to document its own handling of the process.
The posting angered Adams, who said she suspected that Texas coaches were behind it. She flatly denied the report.
“This isn’t about J-Mac anymore,” Adams said. “It’s about O.U. versus Texas. It shouldn’t be that way.”
Allegations from the report upset her because she said she had received numerous offers of gifts in exchange for her son to attend Texas. She said she did not believe that Brown or anyone officially with Texas was involved or had any knowledge of the enticements.
“It’s been made known that enough income would flow through where I would be good for a while,” Adams said.
Earlier this month, a former classmate called Adams and asked if she would coax her son into attending Texas. If so, a banker had promised the former classmate any type of loan.
At one point, McFarland cried while discussing with his mother whether to attend Oklahoma or Texas.
“I hate this now,” his mother recalled him saying. “I really do, simply because of the pressure.”
After the visit by Stoops, Adams said she received a message from a Longhorns assistant, who wrote, “I hope that Texas is still in your mind.”
A week later, McFarland’s mind was made up.
“I’m pretty glad it’s over,” he said by Thursday. “This is a good thing to have out of the way. Everyone’s satisfied.”
Especially Oklahoma, which received a Texas-size Christmas gift.
Pete Thamel contributed reporting.