T1B

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 6:15 am**

When my wife and I came to Korea four years ago we leased out our house - $1300 a month.
Rather than set up an EFT with the leasee, we set things up for the leasee to mail his monthly payments to my wife's brother.
Her brother lived near our bank and it was easy for him to drop by the bank and simply make the deposit each month.
We left a stack of deposit slips with our account number on them with him.

All is cool.

6 or 8 months pass and ... one month there is no deposit made.
I waited a week-or-so - and then emailed the leasee, assuming he somehow didn't make payment.
He said he had mailed the payment as usualm and didn't know what the problem was.

So my wife contacted her brother to ask him about it.
He told her he had run into a money problem and "had" to use our $1300.

Me: ummmm ...

In the first place, I have NO idea how he even cashed the check at the bank because the check was not in HIS name.
WTF?

Ok, I immediately contacted the leasee and made arrangements to have him make electronic payments from then on.

My wife, speaking to me, was like, "You have to understand Korea people. A Family member can think that it's ok to do something like this with another family member."

Me: :?

He didn't even fuckin' ASK us if he could "use" our money.
Not only that, he didn't even think he needed to tell us he took our money.

It happened that I visited America a couple months after this happened and I saw the dickbag.
As soon as he met me he was all friendly and apologetic, like, "I'm sorry, I had a money problem. I'm going to put your money back soon, yada, yada ..."
I was like, "Ok, yes, do that."

Three years later, not word one from dickbag about when he's going to give us our $1300 back.

Hey, blow it off.
What's $1300 to a guy like me?

It's NOT the money.
It's the IDEA that a guy would be such an uber douche to pull a stunt like that and then proceed as if it has never happened.

But he's ... family.

Now I find out today that he's going to visit Korea.
He's not staying with us, but I KNOW I am going to see him when he's here.

What should I do?

a) nothing, just let it pass - he's family
b) put a threatening note on his windshield
c) beat his @ss
d) ask him where my $1300 is
e) turn the other cheek - give him a blank check and say, "Thank you, sir, may I have another?"
f) other - explain

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 6:46 am**

Ask him for the money. The family angle is bullshit. Sure family obligations might require you to lend him the money if you are able, but honor demands that he pay it back.

Invite him to commit seppuku if he is unable to pay the money back within 90 days or, failing that, put his kneecaps on backwards. No wonder the Japs hate the Koreans...no honor among the Garlic Eaters.

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 6:52 am**

the check was not in HIS name.

Doesn't have to be to live large, brah.

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 9:01 am**

If I was hard-hearted I could have made things pretty unpleasant for him when he pulled this stunt.

He committed blatant fraud and theft.

He'd have a hard time explaining his actions to a judge - sin. Marcus

Hey, if he had a money problem and would have wanted to borrow money from us, I could get with that program.
I could even GIVE him money, as he is family, if need be.

But by his actions, he showed that he was not interested in borrowing money from us, or even interested in seeing if we might give him some money.

He was interested in stealing from us.

There is no other way for me to look at it at this time.

Props to dickbag for getting over.

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 9:32 am**

& make sure wife never ever buys him so much as a Christmas card for him or any of his offsprings as you know with him as a father they will be tainted as well!

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 10:05 am**

This is karma for you being in Korea, shoving Bibles down poor Koreans throats and not back home where you belong.

Don't worry, you won't miss the Rapture if you come back here. I'm sure you already have you Jergens and roll of Bounty tucked under your arm for the blessed event.

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 11:52 am**

I'm coming to Canada next - to save you from your sins.

Loverboy
October to May
Winnipeg

Much love, Marty.

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 7:01 pm**

If you are a good christian, you should turn the other cheek.

If you wanna be a bad ass, you should go Big Lebowski on him.

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 7:07 pm**

Judo chop that rent thieving Gook

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 7:11 pm**

poptart wrote: My wife, speaking to me, was like, "You have to understand Korea people. A Family member can think that it's ok to do something like this with another family member."

Three years later, not word one from dickbag about when he's going to give us our $1300 back.

What should I do?

Sorry dude you bled from your vagina too long to NOW do something about this. Tape on a pair of balls and try and do better next time.

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 7:12 pm**

mvscal wrote:Big fan of Gooks here... well some Gooks anyways.

Posted: **Sat May 08, 2010 11:01 pm**

Toddowen wrote:
poptart wrote:
Now I find out today that he's going to visit Korea.
He's not staying with us, but I KNOW I am going to see him when he's here.

What should I do?
Buy yourself one of those fake winning lottery scratch-offs. Leave it in a place where you know he'll find it. Hang back and observe.

Who knows. Maybe if he thinks he's won 50K, he'll travel to North Carolina or wherever to claim his prize.

Did that to a guy i know. Backstory was, his father had died in past 6months, his accountant who handled the trust fund, had stole 3/4 of his money, and on his B-day, i gave him one of the fake tickets from Spencers. He scratched it, started to tear up, thanked god, said his troubles and the bad times were over, and hugged us all. My buddies kept trying to get me to tell him the truth, but the fact that he was crying and actually believing it was real, was too god, i was going to soak it up for as long as i could. Then after being almost lynched, i told the guy, he stood there in shock, he tried to kick my ass. It is still one of my most memorable moments. Spencers used to have some real good fake scratchers, last time i looked, they were shitty.

Posted: **Sun May 09, 2010 11:46 am**

poptart, when you eat out your wife, do you still find yourself hungry after an hour?

Korean...Chinese...I know, yeah...whatever...

Posted: **Sun May 09, 2010 11:48 am**

Pop,

these fukkrs are WORKING you.

How long before

Posted: **Mon May 10, 2010 3:28 pm**

How long before:

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:20 am**

*UPDATE*

The payback:

B-i-L has been in Korea for about 3 weeks.
Hadn't seen or heard anything from him.

Yesterday my wife had lunch with her other brother (maybe dog, not sure) and she came home with an envelope containing 1,500,000 won - approximately $1,265.

Her U.S.A. dickbag brother had visited her other brother and had given him the money to give to us.

This is how 'they' operate.

^ _ ^

Done.

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2010 1:41 am**

Demand the ancient Korean ritual of Kok Poo Yum (A2M) from your wife for even involving you in this unfortunate mess.

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2010 9:05 am**

Answer "A." You get what you get when you marry into another culture. A co-worker of mine lost more than $20,000 to his Thai wife's brother while he was at work. She "hired" him to do some home repairs, whereupon he asked for an advance, and then promptly spent it on his house. If you don't want the bother of these problems, marry into like-cultures where you know the rules going in.
/shrugs

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2010 3:21 pm**

It ain't about culture, dumbfukk.

deadbeat in-laws are fukking universal.

i suspect he knew in advance what sort of POS his bro-in-law was. if not he, his OL certainly knew. he rolled the dice and lost. fortunately shitbag-in-law eventually squared with him, even if he did it in a sackless manner.

if you put a relative in a position to fukk you and you know he's shady, you deserve the fukking that will surely come.

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2010 4:50 pm**

Staying single & pickin' up strange on a routine basis is the ticket, at least after the first divorce. No pesky in-laws.

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2010 5:00 pm**

poptart wrote:*UPDATE*

The payback:

B-i-L has been in Korea for about 3 weeks.
Hadn't seen or heard anything from him.

Yesterday my wife had lunch with her other brother (maybe dog, not sure) and she came home with an envelope containing 1,500,000 won - approximately $1,265.

Her U.S.A. dickbag brother had visited her other brother and had given him the money to give to us.

This is how 'they' operate.

^ _ ^

Done.

I notice he shorted you about $35. Interest reversed?

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2010 11:04 pm**

haha

Maybe so, trev.

I was actually surprised and ?pleased? that he ponied up at all, so I'm glad to take it.

Side note which I neglected to even mention in my post to open the thread:

!5 months prior to leaving for Korea, I had bought a new little Hyundai Elantra.
When I left for Korea (10 months before BiL pulled his stunt), insead of selling the car, which had less than 15,000 miles on it, I GAVE it to BiL - because he needed wheels.

GAVE a pretty much new car to him - maybe worth around $10,000 - rather than sell it.

Then 10 months later he gave me his thank you. har

Probably my mistake, as he obviously took that to mean that whatever is mine is ... HIS.

Whatever - he paid up now as far as I'm concerned.

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2010 11:29 pm**

Congratulations on receiving any sort of payment at all. What he did was nothing short of theft but at least he has somewhat redeemed himself.

Posted: **Sat Jun 19, 2010 11:34 pm**

I guess he just figures you owe him something for banging his sister a few thousand times. Seems fair enough to me.

Posted: **Mon Jun 21, 2010 1:41 pm**

poptart wrote:haha

Maybe so, trev.

I was actually surprised and ?pleased? that he ponied up at all, so I'm glad to take it.

Side note which I neglected to even mention in my post to open the thread:

!5 months prior to leaving for Korea, I had bought a new little Hyundai Elantra.
When I left for Korea (10 months before BiL pulled his stunt), insead of selling the car, which had less than 15,000 miles on it, I GAVE it to BiL - because he needed wheels.

GAVE a pretty much new car to him - maybe worth around $10,000 - rather than sell it.

Then 10 months later he gave me his thank you. har

Probably my mistake, as he obviously took that to mean that whatever is mine is ... HIS.

Whatever - he paid up now as far as I'm concerned.

He probably sold your car for $1265.

Posted: **Mon Jun 21, 2010 1:59 pm**

poptart wrote:Whatever - he paid up now as far as I'm concerned.

So Wolfman can still hold out hope, I guess.

Posted: **Mon Jun 21, 2010 2:11 pm**

BGrift already took care of this...he only shorted him $15...not like it's $35 or anything

Posted: **Wed Jun 23, 2010 7:05 pm**

poptart wrote: Probably my mistake, as he obviously took that to mean that whatever is mine is ... HIS..

I'm betting he's fucking your wife too in that case

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